Squirting: What Is It Really & Why It Happens
We know you’re excited about the squirting techniques, but we’re not going there yet. As we’ve mentioned above, you need to make your partner fully aroused to locate her G-spot. If you can’t warm her up, then you’ve already failed the whole thing.
Female ejaculation looks very different – it’s a smaller amount of milky fluid. This milky fluid is produced in the Skene’s gland (sometimes called the female prostate) and exits through the urethra with sexual release [3]. What exactly is female ejaculation, and how does it occur? These are questions that have puzzled both individuals and experts for years.
They might be into kissing, dirty talk, digital clitoral stimulation, oral sex, nipple play, role play, porn, sex toys, spanking, or something else entirely. Your girl will know what works best for her, so make sure to talk to her and get her feedback. Unlike peeing, squirting is an involuntary reaction to G-spot stimulation. So you’ve got to rub her G-spot if you want to make a girl ejaculate. Squirting is often — but not always [1] — a result of G-spot orgasm. Squirting and pee are similar in that the fluid is ejected from the same place, her urethra.
It is a way to relax, ‘blow off steam’ and add another dimension of pleasure to the standard female orgasm. This is THE biggest barrier how to make her squirt, and is even more important than the physical side, in my experience. Unfortunately, our culture has a tendency to shame women who are sexually open and experimental. These are the areas that when the tension is released, you’ll be able to have such powerful orgasms that it will almost be unbearable.
For more stimulation to the front wall of the vagina, lie flat while the penetrative partner remains slightly elevated. Either person can also stimulate the top partner’s clitoris in this position. A person may find it easier to squirt when masturbating, rather than during sex with a partner, because they can focus entirely on their own sensations and adjust accordingly.
However, it’s important to remember that everyone’s body is different, and not everyone is able to squirt. Place a firm pillow under her butt to change the angle of penetration so that the penis is directly hitting the G-spot. Make sure both of you are comfortable and it feels good. Finally, add a CBD lube to not only help your body relax but increase blood flow to the vagina increasing your likelihood of squirting.
This one’s exactly what it sounds like—combine oral play with fingering. The pause builds anticipation and makes every stroke more intense when you start again. She probably won’t squirt right now, but she will definitely have an orgasm.
